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Answered on September 10, 2026 at 17:02.
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People have different temperaments. Some are more quickly frustrated, worried, or angered when plans fail, emergencies arise, or work is not done well. Recognizing that tendency should lead to deliberate growth, not despair or an excuse for sinful outbursts.
Ask God for the Spirit’s fruit of self-control, patience, and endurance. With maturity, practice slowing the reflexive response and bringing the flesh under control before speaking or acting. Anger that erupts against others must be resisted.
The underlying intensity can also be directed toward good purposes. A person who notices problems, cares about excellence, and refuses to ignore what is wrong may become an effective leader. The aim is not to become indifferent, but to bridle that passion so it serves rather than harms others.
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