Is persistent pornography use grounds for divorce?

Pastor Mike’s Answer (edited)

Pornography is a serious form of sexual unfaithfulness in the heart and can cause profound damage to a spouse and marriage. Pastor Mike nevertheless distinguishes it from the physical sexual immorality described in Matthew 19 and does not regard pornography alone as the same biblical ground for divorce.

The distinction does not minimize the sin. Just as murderous hatred is related to murder without being the identical act, lust and pornography belong to the spectrum of sexual betrayal without automatically becoming physical adultery.

Persistent, unrepentant use should be confronted through church discipline, specialized pastoral counseling, clear boundaries, and accountable treatment. Because pornography may accompany coercion, financial deception, other affairs, or abuse, a spouse should obtain individualized counsel from qualified pastors, licensed counselors, and—when legal rights or personal safety are involved—an attorney or appropriate protection resource.