How can I honor and forgive a father who abandoned the family?
A father who commits adultery, divorces his wife, and abandons his family has acted dishonorably. Honoring a parent does not require pretending the conduct is respectable or maintaining the same closeness that existed before the betrayal. Forgiveness begins by surrendering personal vengeance and entrusting judgment to God. Full relational reconciliation is different: it requires repentance …